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THe Happiness Project: Day 4

I took a few minutes today to peruse The Happiness Project online today - I got the book for Christmas and have decided to make a concerted effort to make 2012 a good year. One of my focused resolutions for the month is to get more rest, which is especially important since I have Lupus. Although I got to bed later than I wanted last night, I still got about 7 hours of sleep. Ideally, 9 hours is good for me.

This morning I woke up a minute or two before my alarm went off, and I went ahead and got up (a tip from Peter Shankman) and drank a glass of water. The morning was so nice. I had my cup of coffee, ate a bowl of blueberry cereal and did a little writing . . . and made it to work on time.

It's amazing how much difference little changes can make. My kiddo goes to bed early every night. I think it's time I follow her example.

What little changes can you make in your life to increase your happiness?

The Happiness Project: Day 3

2011 is in the rearview mirror and 2012 stretches out before me like a blank canvas. When I look back at 2011, there are several things that stand out:

  • going to Vegas to spend a long weekend with my BFF
  • going to 2 CKC events
  • going to the Princess Diana Exhibit at Union Station
  • my daughter getting her driver's license
  • presenting at the state paralegal seminar
  • teaching a scrapbooking class for the public library
  • presenting at the Mid-Mo Writers Conference

Ah, yes. It has been a wonderful year. :o)

And 2012 will be a good year, too. I can feel it. And given the fact that this is my last full year with my kiddo at home, I am determined to savor every moment of it. My goal is to make this year memorable and special. I want to make a big deal out of the holidays, and would like to do more to cherish the small moments, too. (I know I'm going to miss my kiddo horribly, so I think I need to start preparing now)


Anyone else out there starting to prepare for an empty nest?


Love Under a Dark Sky by Shellie Foltz

I'm not sure why, but I rarely share reviews of the books I've read, however, I put this book on my bookshelf over the weekend as I was cleaning up for Christmas and remembered how much I enjoyed reading Love Under a Dark Sky by Shellie Foltz, so I thought I'd share my thoughts. This book was a fun, fast read, very well-written and enjoyable. The heroine is older than usual, and the hero is a sci fi writer. I loved the fact that the characters were layered and complete, the story was believable, and I identified with the heroine (and the hero, for that matter). I really wanted this couple to get together, and loved experiencing the excitement of a new relationship through their eyes. I enjoyed the book so much, I sought out the author's previous book and purchased it, also. I highly recommend the book - especially for women beyond the teen stage, who enjoy reading about real women finding real love.

For more about what I'm reading, check out: My Goodreads Page

Writing about scrapping

As most of you know, I'm a writer and I participate in National Novel Writing Month. This month has been really tough, more of a challenge than I've ever faced in previous years. This is year eight, and for the first time, I may not win. But you know what, that's OK. Because I have started on a story that has really captured my attention, because it has combined my two passions - writing and scrapbooking. This story takes place when a series of murders break the tranquility of a small town, a group of scrapbookers band together to find the murderer when one of their own becomes a victim.

I envision the book being a sort of scrapbook of the women's lives as they grow closer and get closer to the murderer.

Here's a snippet of how the story begins:


The four women sitting at the back table at Crop Circles looked typical at first glance. If this were a movie, things would start off wide, beams of sunlight slanting down from the west, letting you know it's late afternoon. A big pan shot, showing idyllic rolling hills topped with brilliantly colored leaves of red and orange, surrounded by beautiful sprawling homes and ranches separated by white wooden fences that look like dotted lines from above, then the camera would scan right, past the little stream that is marked as Cosby Creek but everyone calls Casper Creek because of the ghost sightings, over the hills and then you would see the town of Tranquility. It's laid out in a perfect grid, with the Christmas tree factory to the north and the old rail yard to the south, highlighted by the depot that has been turned into a science museum for kids. The houses start off big, on tree lined streets, then get smaller and more dense the closer you get to the town square. The camera would zoom in, flying down Adams Street, drifting slightly right and left to give you the illusion of flight, dodging the cars parked on the left and right, in spite of the fact that parking isn't allowed on the right side. You'd pass a handful of businesses just before the square, the title company, a Ford dealership with a gleaming black Cobra sitting in the front window, a pharmacy and a pawn shop. When you finally get to the square, the camera pulls in tighter and you see the old courthouse, a stately stone square, squat and solid, with an old cannon outside, a tribute to fallen soldiers from Cedar County. That tells you right away that Tranquility is the county seat of Cedar County, a small town, yes, but big compared to other towns in the area, and important. This is where things happen. And the true center of activity, the pulse of the town is coming up on your right. The camera passes a sporty gray convertible Mustang, a racy red Mercedes coupe, a chic dark gray Cadillac and a worn out blue minivan with bald tires, among other vehicles, then the image zooms in on a storefront. The plate glass window is filled with goodies of all types, very retro and spacey looking, lots of circles and swirls, all showing off paper crafts, papers, paint cans, albums and other assorted ephemera related to the hobby of scrapbooking. The painted words along the plate glass window declare that this store is the Crop Circle. A large green alien head smiles beside the words. The glass door swings open with a merry jingle, the camera swoops past shelves and racks, past the center counter – an island of business in the chaos of the store – and to the large open area in the back of the store. A mural of the New Mexico landscape covers one wall, with Roswell identified in the background and a crashed space ship with a tall gray  alien laying beside it in the foreground. A black helicopter hovered in the air, frozen in time on the wall. The back wall was completely covered with chalkboard paint, and people had decorated it with all kinds of jottings and drawings and squiggles. The other wall was completely covered with a whiteboard, similarly covered with jottings and drawings and squiggles and notes from one scrapper to another. Several long white banquet tables are set up in the back area, with women gathered around them in folding chairs like hens around a pile of fresh grain. From the outside, men probably think that’s exactly what they are – a bunch of clucking hens. But look a little closer. Especially at the table in the back left corner. The table isn’t crowded. Four women sit together, gathered at the center of the table, two on each side, with their supplies on the ends of the table. There are four women, a pixie like blonde, cute as a button, with an upturned nose and everything. Beside her is a frazzled looking woman, older than the pixie. At least, she looks older at first glance, with her frizzy hair pulled back in a ponytail to hide the fact that it has no shape, no style. She wears no makeup. At closer look, they’re probably closer in age than you first thought. Across from the frazzled woman is her opposite, a tall, slender woman with a sleek bob. Her dark hair is smooth and chic, cut at an angle, longer in front, shorter in back. Stacked, the stylist called it. Everything about her is perfect, from her clothes to her makeup to her hair. Even the layout in front of her is perfectly laid out in a grid. Next to the sleek brunette is a redhead with long, flowing locks that fall in loose waves. Her makeup is applied with a much more liberal hand than any of the others. Her clothes are expensive, and her V-neck blouse is buttoned one button too many. Her breasts are large and worth every penny, she admits readily. The first thing most people notice about her, male or female, is her curves. Outside of the store, the four women might not have been friends. It’s not like they hang out together. But their Wednesday night cropping sessions had brought them together, and they attended the crops as religiously as most of the Bible thumpers in town attended Wednesday night church. One by one, they had found the store. One by one, they learned that scrapbooking was an exciting and fun hobby that brought them together. Their crafty creations were almost a byproduct of their time together.


Ghosts of the Past

What is it about going back to a place you used to know? There’s a delight, a little thrill when you see things that remind you of what once was. It’s the little things, too – the hook on the wall where you used to hang your coat, the pillar in the middle of the room where there used to be a worktable around it, the area where your desk used to be.

I took my daughter on her first college visit last month, to the college where I attended and used to work. Her last meeting of the day was held where my old office used to be located, some 25 years ago. I paid no attention to the discussion. Instead, I looked around, in awe. I felt a sort of quiet reverence being in that room again. The memories came flooding back: laminating alumni cards, using a computer for the first time at work (those were the days of DOS . . . ), the fumes of markers from coloring Homecoming decorations. It was an odd feeling, the memories flooding over me like that. If I squinted my eyes just a touch, I could almost see the ghost images of Teresa (she had a baby that she named Gentry, her maiden name), Cindy (she taught me a lot about being a good employee), Diana (she looked like a flower child, but had the mind of a computer guru), Robyn (a dynamo of a woman), Marilyn (my hero – the first professional woman I ever knew), and Virginia (who took me under her wing).

As I drove home that day, with my daughter about to embark on the most exciting journey of her life, I felt as if a circle were closing. I was young, idealistic and had a lot to learn when I worked there. I was married and thought I knew everything. I knew nothing. But since then I’ve learned that my goals are just as important as anyone else’s, that my time is as valuable as anyone else’s, and that making your dreams come true requires hard work, perseverance and a little luck. The ghost of me that wanders the third floor of the Student Union would be proud of who I’ve become.

Fun Friday: I've been hit by an airborne turtle!

Nah, not really. There is a new federal law that dramatically increases the number of insurance medical codes. New laws, especially insurance laws, aren't funny. But it does strike me as funny that the new medical codes include so many ways to code a run-in with a turtle. I think there should be a mandatory stupidity code to cover the code "bitten by turtle, subsequent encounter". And "struck by turtle"? Seriously? How many instances are there of individuals struck by turtles?

Turtle grenades?

Turtles launching themselves with catapults?

Hmmmm . . . now my imagination is in overdrive! :o)

Poke around the new medical codes and let me know what you find interesting!

Elle

Mid Mo Writers Expo

I thought I had already shared this information, but alas, it looks like I was wrong! The Mid Mo Writers Expo (co-sponsored by my writing group) is this coming Saturday! WOOT!! We have a great lineup, including Randall Fuller, Matthew Murrie, Margo Dill, and local writers, Carolyn Branch, Ericca Thornhill, Kadi Easley, Jennifer Bondurant and me.

If you have not been to a writers' conference before, this is a great one to start with. It's one day and affordable. If you have been to a writers' conference before, we hope you are able to join us to hear some great speakers and network with other writers in the Mid-Missouri area. It always amazes me how many people I know that say, "I want to write" - but I've known them for years and had no idea!

By the way, plans are gearing up for NaNo . . . it's just around the corner! Have you thought about what you want to write yet? I have an idea, but I'm not ready to talk about it yet. Can't actually - that takes the magic away!

Tell me about conferences you've been to. What did you like about them? What would you have changed? Any particularly good speakers?

Fun Friday: Generators

Here's a list of five fun sites, in no particular order:

Seventh Sanctum's Writing Generator - a great time waster, plus it actually works when you get stuck and need the name of a pub for your fantasy.

Bing maps - if you can't afford to travel, use Bing's bird's eye view.

Smart Bitches, Trashy Books - reviews of romances, "All of the romance, none of the bullshit."

Who Do You Think You Are - the UK version. If you're stuck, explore your own past.

The Fluffington Post - because nothing will brighten your day like cute fluffy animals.


Thrifty Thursday: Going to Conferences

Those who know me know that, although I enjoy spending money and am easily distracted by shiny things, I'm kinda cheap. Many of my reads come from the library. The books I buy are generally e-books for my Nook because they're cheaper. I read websites instead of subscribing to magazines. And I'll use my laptop until it dies.

Still, the hardest thing for me to spend significant money on is going to a conference. And it is something you really NEED to do if you want to be a successful writer. Conferences are a valuable networking opportunity, and they provide an excellent way for you to study the craft of writing. So, how do you go to a conference on a budget?

Research. There are lots of conferences out there, some better than others. Remember that you want to make sure the value you get for the money is the best it can be. If you find a cheap conference for children's authors, but you write horror - not a good use of money. Look at the conference first, money second. Another tip: don't be swayed by fancy websites and big prices. High priced conferences aren't necessarily the best.

Volunteer. Check with the conference organizer and see if a discount could be offered if you help out. Added bonus: you'll get to meet other volunteers and speakers.

Carpool. Find someone else from your area to ride with. You can split the gas money, plus you get a buddy to talk writing about on the way to and from.

Share. A good bit of your budget will likely be the hotel. It is often cheaper to stay at a nearby hotel, but check into it. Sometimes the host hotel will offer a great deal for conference goers. If you have a friend going, share a room. If you don't have a friend going, contact some other attendees or some writers' forums online. I've met some great people online who I ended up splitting a room with at a conference. One of the most fun conference experiences I ever had was when five of us were sharing a room with two queen beds and a cot. It was fun - like a slumber party!

Great memories on a budget! :o)

What are your tips for going to a conference on a budget?


City Girl or Country Girl?

When I was younger, I dreamed of life in the country. I knew it would be wonderful, living in a big white farmhouse flanked with white wooden fences stretching off in both directions. Horses would graze on one side, cattle on the other, kittens would play on the hay bales. Morning would start with a big breakfast and the smell of coffee would mingle with the maple smell of syrup.

Yeah . . . no. It really hasn't worked out quite that way. But a girl can dream, right?

I got my feet wet in the country-arena when I was in the 6th grade. 6th grade was a big year for me. I got kissed for the first time (my first "real" boyfriend), I learned that I could escape into writing, and I got my first job. The kiss wasn't nearly as big a deal as the first job.  It was a quick little peck on a dare in the library. Over and done with, whoopee do. Not quite what my pre-teen mind had imagined it would be (and it sure as hell wasn't like the ones I'd seen on TV). The first job on the other hand, was way more than my pre-teen mind had imagined.

It all started when I spent the night with my friend Amy, who lived in the country (I can still feel those jealous pangs!). We walked across the road to see the neighbor's horses - it was a riding stable, just like in the books I read! I plucked grass with my fist, yanked so hard that the edges of the grass made tiny cuts all over the edge of my palm - but I was so thrilled at the thought of being so close to a horse, I didn't even notice at the time. The owner came out, showed me how to feed the horses the grass without losing a digit and mentioned that she needed someone to help at her riding stable.

Gulp.

Could that be me? I stood there in my cheap jeans and garage sale T-shirt and no-name tennis shoes and thought that, perhaps, just perhaps, I could finagle riding lessons out of this deal. There was no WAY my parents would ever spring for riding lessons, but maybe I could barter? I had dreamed of such an opportunity, and often fantasized about approaching horse owners and offering myself up as slave labor for the opportunity to ride. And here was an owner right smack dab in front of me, ripe for the picking. But that meant I had to actually talk to an adult. Negotiate. For someone as shy as me, that was like walking the plank. And then, worst of all, I'd have to talk to my mom. We were miles out of town, no way I could ride my bike that far, especially not on such a hilly curvy road with no shoulders. I'd have to talk her into it, and she wasn't easy to talk into anything.

But, I pulled myself up as straight as I could and asked Beth if she'd be willing to let me work for her in exchange for riding lessons. To my utter surprise and horror, she said yes! I could work from 8 - 12 every Saturday and during that time, I'd get a one hour lesson. WOO-HOOO!!!

Oh, crap. I remembered that a major hurdle still stood in my way. My mother. It's funny now, all these years later. I remember how much courage it took to ask Beth to work for lessons, but there's a total blank about asking Mom. What I do remember is that she agreed. And so, for two summers, I was in heaven. My Saturdays consisted of cleaning saddles, raking the barn (a/k/a scooping shit), painting fence (by the way . . . If I ever get that big farmhouse, the white fence is going to be something I don't have to paint!), and cutting weeds with a hand scythe. It was hard, hot work, but I loved every minute of it. That's when I knew that horses would always be part of my fantasy life. In reality, the farmhouse has been replaced with a modular home, the fence is cattle panels and woven wire, and the horses are miniature . . . but there's still nothing like sitting in a barn with horses snuffling softly around you, their hooves kicking up little puffs of dirt, with the fragrant smell of fresh hay hanging in the air.

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